I met my boyfriend when i was in my first year, end of second semester at the University. He was a bit older than me and had finished his bachelors degree like four years back ,we exchanged contacts and started communicating, as time went on, he started picking me up from campus for lunch, and he would later drop me at home, because i was still commuting from my parents home.
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At first i didn’t have much interest in him, but he showed me that he was so in love with me, and put a lot of his efforts to see that things worked out between the two of us.
One day my boyfriend took us together with my friends to a night club, the next day, i had a hung over, so he requested to buy me something to eat because i had spent the whole day sleeping without eating anything, so i decided to go with him to buy chicken and chips, as we were at the restaurant, i asked for his phone number, which he freely gave to me.
On checking his phone, i saw pictures of kids, i was compelled to asked him ’’Are you married? he denied being married and he assured me that he only had a daughter, but he was separated with the mother.
As a sign of assurance, my boyfriend took me to his place quite a number of times, and there was no sign of him having someone else, and as time went on, i proved it myself that they had really separated, so i decided to move on with him.
How my boyfriend begun changing.
Things went on well, not until my third year when things started changing. The gifts, outings, and love that my boyfriend showered me started becoming a nightmare. I had fallen in love with him and he also knew it because my actions showed and could tell what i felt on the inside for him, he started taking my love for granted, from no where, he started showing me that he was too busy to be with me like it was before, i tried complaining, but it seemed nothing to him, i always asked him what really happened to our first love, and instead he would ignore, or even change the topic because he seemed guilty.
One day i paid him a visit at his place, and on entering his bedroom, i found clothes of a different woman in his closet, i was shocked, but i just kept quiet, i knew inside that he was cheating on me, but i wasn’t so sure who she was exactly, I decided to do my own research and found out that he had reunited with his ex, and she was the mother to his daughter.
I was hurt, but i understood that it would be possible to a large extent, and so i decided to quit the relationship silently and i decided to move on, i begun concentrating on other things that were of value to me.
I met my true love
Later after finishing school, i got a job and in the process, i met the love of my life who’s currently my husband. We started dating, and fortunately fell for each other. I decided to settle with him since he showed me he was seriously in love with me, as a surprise, we had a lot of things in common, we understood each other and were there for each other in all situations.
At first i was scared to enter a relationship again, because of what i had gone through, but realised i had to use another chance so that’s how we ended up together.
On realising that i had moved on, Joshua who had become my former boyfriend, came back to me telling me how things had failed again with his ex, all i had to say was ”sorry”, but it was too late for him.
Always value what you have, don’t wait until it is taken, then you start regretting. Chance comes once in life, then you start regretting.
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