The number of people that have landed in toxic marriages after ignoring this fact are many. How do you even convince yourself to believe this lie because it is? Someone has shown you who they are while you are just dating and you go ahead to marry them.
If he has been beating you when it’s just a relationship, how about now that you are always in his face. If she has been disrespecting you, how about now when she already has you as her husband.
Some of you really need some help because you fall in ditches when they are just in front of you. Honestly, there are certain things you see in someone and the best thing to do is to run for your life.
Stop convincing yourself that they will change when they marry you. Who told you? Actually, people are always around their best while dating. If someone is at their worst then why go ahead to marry them?
I understand especially the ladies have the pressure that comes with the age, but what’s the use of rushing in just to come out.
Always be keen as you are dating someone. This is the stage to sieve what you can take in and what you shouldn’t. It’s the time to study someone and know if they will make a good husband or wife.
The good thing is that all of us have great instincts that we just choose to ignore. There are always signs of something that will work out or another that will just end in tears. Unfortunately, no one pays attention to that lately.
Have your limits, don’t let in everything. If you can handle it, go ahead but if you can’t then let it go.
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