Beyond The Feelings, There is Reality That’s Clear

Posted by: Suubi Anne in Life style September 5, 2020

It’s always easy to get into a relationship, especially if all you rely on is just feelings. But, how about beyond how you feel, is that relationship really healthy? So many people have gotten themselves in what they want to call entanglements. This is just because they are driven by their feelings. I mean, it’s undeniable, we may have no control on how we feel. But the power to react is totally in our hands.

No relationship should just be built on the foundation of feelings. In any case, you shouldn’t get into a relationship with someone you don’t actually love. Beyond the feelings, there are a lot of things to consider. These things may perhaps bring up issues later and then follows the heartbreaks. Don’t just give yourself away because you love someone, there must be that special bond. Or something that goes beyond feelings that you both share.

The reason its called a relationship is because it must take you places and its your choice on where it will end. There is no reason for you to be entangled with someone who can’t help you grow in any way. Your partner must impact you positively and fit in your dreams and values as a person. If you should compromise at any point, it must be because you want to not because you have been forced to.

What the reality is

The reality is we always know when we are getting ourselves into fire but we chose to just fall in because we think we can’t tame how we feel. You must master your feelings, they shouldn’t rule you or affect your actions. Always sit down and ask yourself if this is the person you want to be with. Take away the feelings, do they still qualify to be your life partner. Many times people have said love is beyond a feeling and its true because its a decision in that even when you don’t feel like you love this person, you will stay because you decided to love them.

Mistakes have been made, hearts have been broken, lives have been lost just because people were never taught to look beyond their feelings. We forget so fast that feelings actually do change so no one should make a permanent decision based on temporary feelings.

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