When i was in High school, i fell in love with a girl called Jane. I loved her so much though it was so hard for me to approach her to tell how much i loved her, i could feel very shy because it was my first time to fall in love. As time went on, she realised i was in love with her, but she could not mind.
One day, i sent one of my friends to tell her how much i loved her, when she heard, her response was really disappointing, she responded with disgusting words and of which even my friend had feared to tell me. I turned a deaf ear towards that, i used to write her sweet messages on pieces of papers, but she could not even mind, i was heartbroken.
I decided to keep fighting for her because i thought it was the bravest thing i had to do no matter how hard and painful things could get. Indeed i had real feeling for her. Some people don’t really know how lucky they’re when they have someone who cares deeply for them.
After a few month of trying, i realised she also had someone else she was in love with, that’s why she could not mind at all about me. I started recalling the pain i went through and numerous sleepless nights, the world was too narrow for me, it was a whole new level of stress.
After almost a decade, things changed in my life, my mind and experience were far ahead and my thinking capacity was mature enough, as the saying goes, ‘’ Experience is the best teacher’’.
My fellow men, if you find a girl that genuinely loves you more than you love her, don’t take it for granted, try to find out whether her love for you is based on material things or you personally, if she truely loves you, consider yourself lucky.
It took me quite a long before i finally figured out that choosing a girl that loves you more is valuable.
Here are my reasons why you should marry a girl that loves you more.
1). She’ll treat you like a king:
If a woman loves you so much, she’ll definitely treat you like a king , when you come back from work, she’ll immediately hug you, remove your shoes and tell you how much she missed you that day.
2). She’ll always respect you:
When a woman is truely in love with you, she’ll always respect you, no matter what, she’ll always know that you’re the man of her life.
3). She’ll love everything about you
A girl that truely loves you, will love everything that you even hate about yourself including your physical weakness, your fears, moods and your insecurities. She’ll be happy to get to learn about the way you get sad and angry.
4). She’ll love you unconditionally:
She will love you in good and bad situations, she’ll love you even when things have gone worse or rough. She’ll always seek for your heart’s best interest and she’ll also make sacrifices.
5). She’ll value you
A woman who truely loves you will always know your worth, she will never leave or lose you because she needs you. She knows that there will never be someone like you. She’ll make you feel you’re the most handsome man in the world.
Before you think of ignoring that person who took care of you, treated you nicely and loved you unconditionally, think of that person that violated your patience, played with your heart and took you for granted. Everyone deserves to be loved, cherished and cared for. Perhaps we’re not giving enough chance to someone who desires it most.
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