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Yeah! In the 21st century most of the youth fix hard to be with a girl friend or a boy friend, but the question is, “Is it a must or nature demands?” Although many get disappointments & rejects they search until they get one and not most of them are hardly in need of a boy friend or a girl friend but due to peer pressure they have to.
What I like about the youth esp (boys) is not the words and the traps they use to attract the opposite sex to become their girl friends but it is the Persistence and faith they have that they will definitely get a girl of their choice.
As Elvis Presley said “When things go wrong, don’t go with them” exactly, that’s what the youth boys do when they have got over more rejects and disappointments they don’t go in the direction of disappointments and rejects but they create their own way and let go.
Giving up doesn’t define you as being weak, wrong or hopeless it simply defines you as a strong and smart person to let go and move forward with your life.
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Here are the four things that you must let go to move forward.
1) First, Let go the excuses you keep reciting to yourself.
Why? All the excuses and explanations in the universe won’t do you any best. They won’t add any value to the fancy life that you need. To fulfill the wish as to where you what to go in life, requires more than just talking and thinking.
These achievements require more than aimed and sustained action, and you are perfectly capable of taking whatever action that is necessary. You just have to choose to actually do it because no one else can succeed for you on your behalf.
The life you live is the life you brick for yourself. There are many opportunities that can bridge your gap from where you are to where you want to be and many possibilities to choose from, now is the time to move forward. It’s not what you lose along the way that matters, it’s what you do with what you have.
When you let go of the past, forgive what needs forgiving, and move forward, you are in no way to change the past, you change the future.
2) Let go the idea that you don’t have what it takes.
Be like the most youth who don’t mind at anything but focused at getting a boyfriend and girl friend.
You do have exactly what it takes. Will it be easy? Definitely not. Sometimes life can wrestle you to the ground, and keep down at the ground if you let it.
But it’s not about how hard life can hit you, it’s about how you can be hit and continue to move forward. That’s what true strength is about.
3) Let go focusing on the wrong, and start observing what’s right.
The worst mistake one can ever do is trying to re correct what is gone. What you often see depends on what you are looking for. Always do your best and give up the rest.
Yes the worst regret in life is the risk you never took but when you get stuck in that regret life of how you would be then you tend to miss the diamond sceneries you actually have.
You will have a hard time ever being happy if you aren’t thankful for the good things in your life right now. So don’t wait until everything is just right, it will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions.
So what! Get started now! With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger. Say it out loud: “I am determined to live a happy life no matter what my challenges are!
4) Let go the proneness to get too caught up in other people judgements & Ideas.
You cannot have a peaceful mind trying to satisfy people’s ideas of telling you how you should live, who you are or what you what. First, stop those people from bagging into your life.
When you’re making big decisions, remember, what you think of yourself and your life is more important than what people think of you. Don’t let others make you feel culpable for living your life. As long as you’re not hurting anyone else, live it your way.
Yes it’s good to listen to others sometimes but it doesn’t mean that you should do it at full expense because time will come when the world is really quiet and you are only listening to the beats of your own heart. So you’d better learn the sound of it, otherwise you’ll never understand what it’s telling you.
Lastly, you shouldn’t spend too much time concetrating on everyone’s opinion of you, or who everyone else wants you to be, you will eventually forget who you truly are. So don’t fear the judgments of others, you know in your heart who you are and what’s true to you. You don’t have to be someone else to impress people. Let these people be impressed by who you really are.
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