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What If Your Parents Are Against Your Partner?

What If Your Parents Are Against Your Partner?

Many times when we are getting a partner we just don’t think our parents will be against them. Its one of those last things you can even think of. This is because in your mind, you think if I love him/her, they will love her.

So what happens if you introduce your partner and your parents just don’t mingle with them. How do you handle that?

Much as some people want to think, that what an old man sees while sitting, a young man won’t see even if he climbed a tree, it should be tested as well. What If they are wrong? They are human too anyway.

What if they are looking out just a little more than they should? What if all they need is time to get to know the person and then they could come around?

There are so many relationships that have not made it because parents thought they are looking out for their children. Yes, some times they are right but other times they are wrong too because they are human.

Before anything goes down, find out why your parents are opposing your choice of partner. Is there reason valid? Can it be worked out if not then what are you going to do about it.

It is definitely not easy to move on with the relationship when parents are not in support of it.

Nevertheless if there is love, what can’t be done. If the parent’s reason for not supporting your choice is really invalid then you could probably try praying about it. You must really be in love, in support of each other because this is not an easy journey.

To the parents,

If honestly there is no valid reason for not supporting your child’s choice. Sit down with them and talk and don’t do the emotional black mail style. Get to know their partner because its not you who is going to stay with them. Be intentional when it comes to understanding your child’s partner, give them a chance.

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