Parenting must be one of those topics that are not given much attention as families are starting. Somehow people assume that they all know what to do until it dawns on them when they have their first child.
This is one of the most aspects of marriage because it is a daily job. When parenting goes wrong, the happiness of a home is robbed. This means it ought to be taken as seriously as it is.
It is important for two people to sit down and talk about how they think children should be brought up. People grow up in different homes. Their approaches to things too differ.
You find one who has never been beaten growing so they don’t believe in beating children. Another may have had a few strokes on their body, so they believe caning works in bringing up children.
As two people come together, they must agree to disagree or vice versa. Will they do some beating or not? How are you going to discipline your children?
Who are they supposed to visit? Which schools do you want them to go to? Do you need help with them or not? When do they stop breastfeeding? All these questions and more need to be looked into. In any case, even if you don’t bring them up, they will show up.
Sometimes you may have to get some counseling regarding parenting. This is especially from people who inspire you, a family you really love.
Let them share how they are bringing up their children. Well, of course, there are things you will learn on the job but not everything!
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