Lower Your Expectations, Keep Them Normal, You Won’t Be So Disappointed

Sometimes we have so many expectations of people and forget that they are human. The increasing disappointments come from too many expectations. It’s not bad to have expectations, but let them be real, keep them normal especially if you’re dealing with people. People always change not because they want sometimes, but situations do change them at times.

Expectations have killed so many potential relationships. Someone thinks they are dating an angel. The moment something goes wrong, they run off without even hearing the other party out.

Therefore, there are certain things people do and the best way to solve them is to flee. On the other hand, there are some mistakes that can be forgiven and don’t call for jumping out of the relationship.

As you lay your expectations, understand a few things. First of all, you are dealing with a human being, not an angel. Leave some allowance for surprises from the other party. Don’t put yourself in a place where you think you know everything they should do.

Last but not least, ask yourself if you yourself can fulfil your expectations from top to bottom.

The lower your expectations are in people, the lesser your disappointment in them. Even if something goes wrong you can easily move on. Let people shock you by doing what you least expected. The only thing that should have you most high expectation is your life because its important for you as a person.

Check Also;

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• Every Relationship Has Bad Days, Don’t Always Jump From One To Another
• Don’t Leave Room For The Third Person In A Relationship

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