Relationship coach’s advice
Okoro was talking about women who are suffering for their own goals so that they can be in a position to see anyone who might be making them suffer in the name of a relationship.
“Women stop suffering with a man. You did not come to this world to suffer. Suffer for yourself. If you suffer for yourself you will not have to suffer for a man but support a man. Support is different from suffering.
‘’That is why most African women will give men everything they cannot give themselves. That’s why most are suffering with men yet have nothing to show for it. They suffer to build a man yet they do not even have a building,” said Blessings Okoro.
She also commended women not to hustle for a man before they hustle for themselves because they will eventually dump them.
Okoro said most women are grieved because they built men before they built themselves and expected them to return love and the favor, but they didn’t.
“Build yourself up first so that when you get a man, you will go there to give him support and not suffer with him. Two people must not suffer together. There is no enjoyment in suffering,” she added.
According to Okoro, suffering is like buying a man a car when you haven’t bought one for yourself, and expect him to pick you up from work every single day.
In similar relationship news earlier published by NEWSLEXPOINT.com, a Kenyan relationship coach popularly known as Benjamin Zulu came out to give three examples of women that he believes are a no go zone for men ready to settle down.
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