I just think making someone the basis for taking care of yourself is giving them too much power over you. You may never realize it at first but gradually when they say something bad about you that you thought would make them happy, it will steal your joy.
The number one reason you should care about you should be for yourself. Let others come in later. Appreciate yourself first before others appreciate you, it’s called self-confidence.
It’s not bad at all and neither is it a crime for you to put yourself first. I mean, you will avoid a lot of things. Most people that go through depression, got there because they gave the people in their lives too much power over their lives. How can someone be the reason you’re sad or happy? It’s not bad but when it becomes too much, it grows into something more dangerous.
This is not selfish at all, it’s easy to give what you have. It’s easy to love when you love yourself. It’s easy to take care of someone when you can take care of yourself. If you can’t do all these for yourself, believe me even another person will be hard for you to care of.
Everything comes from within to out. It’s easy for people to see you as beautiful when that’s what think of yourself as well.
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