However what if they want you back, would you take them back? It’s honestly a tough situation because of all the things you have to weigh. What makes the situation is the reason why you actually broke up in the first place. If it was due to disloyalty then this is even harder. Whether you believe it or not, you will have trust issues because you will be afraid they may do it again.
It would be okay if you just didn’t rush into anything. Lay everything on the table and let them know everything you won’t tolerate. Take your time and study whether they really need you or want you back just for something. You know it’s easy to fall back in the arms that once held you. So, you should stand your ground. Ask yourself if you need them back? Have you forgiven them for what they did?
Anyway, we may not fight how the heart feels but we have authority over it when it comes to reaction. Yes, you love them but are they good for you? Sit down and think everything over without any influence from the forces outside. No one knows what you want more than you, be real with yourself. I’d you want to get back with them then well and good, if not then it’s still alright.
Above all just make sure you don’t let these circumstances force you to take any hasty stand. Let them prove they deserve a second chance with you. Let them show that they are worth it.
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