Ten Best Golden Secrets To All Those In Marriage

Posted by: bukejonah in Relationships March 10, 2018

All people who want to join marriage should read and imbibe these 10 secrets. Those about to marry should understand and accept them.

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Before you involve in marriage, you should take caution about these secrets.

Everyone you marry has a weakness

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.

Everyone you marry has a Dark history

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!

Everyone who marries has to face challenges

A strong relationship is not a bed of roses. Every shinning relationship has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

Every marriage has different levels of success

Don’t compare your marriage with anyone!. We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marrying stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

To marry is to declare a war

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of your relationship. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack of Love, Rudeness, Wife battle, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your relationship zone.

There is no perfect marriage

There is no already made true relationship anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back axles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your relationship.

God cannot give you the complete person you desire

You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

To marry is to take a risk

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as any situation may change, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get marry to her because she’s slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

Marrying is not a contract, it is permanent

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

Every marriage has a price to pay

A relationship is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage and you cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

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