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When you always think and feel that people should help you. Why do you think that people should help you? Why can’t you feel that you can do things for yourself. What reason are basing on to think that you need help. It’s a very terrible weakness in life that you should never allow in your mind.
What happens is, when you think that people should help you, you seize to think for solutions to your problem and you become a problem.
You start to think of manipulative ways to show the highest level of poverty and failure to convince people that you need help.
There is a lot of thinking and scanning that will take your energy and time to present to world that you need help. I will call that wasted energy and time.
Have you ever seen how beggars are decorated with poverty. They position themselves in a picture that shows how poor they are.
I am not mocking them but that appearance is not by coincidence. It’s a uniform and that person will be at work, asking for donations.
When that person is busy plotting ways to look poor, someone out there is busy plotting ways to earn a living through working.
It’s all in the mind. After I lost both parents, I was only 13 years old. For the first months I spent them crying, feeling sorry for myself and give a picture to people that I am an orphan and I need help.
It was only one day I made decisions, as young as I was, I said enough is enough, I will not cry anymore and I will not wait for handouts. Immediately I started doing things for myself. Selling sweats at school, planting a vegetable garden, keeping chickens and sell. I started doing some business of buying and selling, guess what I never lacked. I raise enough to buy food, buy myself books and shoes for school. I felt proud and gained confidence. I gained control of my life at a very tender age.
Many orphans today are depending on handouts and to them its life. It’s fine to an extent that they become adults and still receive aid under the category of orphan.
In their mind, they don’t want to escape poverty because they are afraid of losing the title orphan (poor) and free handouts will stop.
If you ever at any point in your life you feel that you deserve free money. This is a terrible weakness which you should deal with as soon as possible.
Money must not be given, money must be earned.
Never make yourself a charity case. Those people who have made it in life are not special. They are just like you. The only difference is the mindset. They are willing to work and be self dependent while you are lazy and think that you deserve to be helped.
In most cases I receive requests of financial help from different people. When i look at these people physically they are so fit. I then ask myself, why does these people think that they need help. It’s all just in the mind.
Never be lazy, never want easy life. Nothing is for free.
The time you use following gossip, following other people’s private life, please invest that good time in things that can earn you money.
Today say this to yourself, I am not a charity case. I am not a failure. I will use my time to figure out how I can be a self dependent, financially and in decision making.
There is no one with the best recipe of how to make a good life. It’s all based on trying. That’s it is best to try and fail than doing nothing. Experience is the best teacher.
Stop telling yourself that you are nothing or a failure and you deserve to receive free help. Be very ashamed of begging or ask for help (money) Ruther ask for a job.
Check also;
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