Why You Need To Know Yourself Before Even Thinking Of A Relationship

Posted by: Suubi Anne in Relationships March 31, 2021

It is so dangerous to start relating when you don’t know yourself that much. Relationships can stress you to the point that you even lose yourself in the process. They need the type of people who honestly already know who they are. Otherwise, amidst everything, you will start to search for the real you in the shadows of your partner.

It is always so easy to disappear in the life of another thinking you are also that type of person. When you don’t know yourself, it means in moments of decision making, you will be looking at your partner. You just will not have that independent mind that enables you to see things as you should. It’s not bad for your world to revolve around someone but it is dangerous.

If they ever leave you, recovery becomes a very big issue. This is because their presence is what defines you in your head. You think without them you are lost and doomed. You will think your life only makes meaning with them in it, that is wrong! No one defines you, their presence or absence is not a reflection of who you truly are.

Before you go into any relationship, make sure you know yourself. Do you know you are handsome or beautiful without anyone telling you so? Do you know what you have or can put on the table in a relationship without going overboard? Relationships with other people are meant to compliment you not define you as a person.

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