I dated a girl 6 years ago, she used to stay with her elder sister who was already married. She was single and never married before, i gave my heart to her and after a period of one year in courtship, i developed strong feelings for her, in short, i became her boyfriend. Eventually, we started talking about marriage issues and how many children we plan to have, i was so exited within me and i knew she was the right person for me.
Within no time when she found out she was pregnant, she broke up with me and went back to her ex boyfriend, i tried calling her several times but she couldn’t pick up my calls, surprisingly when she picks up, she tells me she’s busy with her parents but i knew she was at her ex’s place.
She had reunited with her ex boyfriend!
Time came i went to see her sister, she told me everything about her ex’s behaviors and why they had separated, i also told her how things were moving in our lives. In my heart, i thought perhaps i couldn’t meet all her needs because i had a job that was not well paying, definitely i thought it’s the reason why she gave my child to her ex boyfriend because he was able to provide her with everything she needed.
When i insisted calling her, she told me point-blank that even the child in her womb is not mine, i was too disappointed and eventually tears started coming out of my eyes, the truth was that the child was mine and i was ready to take care of her during pregnancy, i wanted to toil just to make sure i put food on table responsibly and stay together as a family.
Worst of all, i heard rumors that her ex boyfriend was complaining he was taking care of someone else’s pregnancy, she could boldly tell him that is his child, but the man had nothing to do. I sent her sister to ask her for me that incase she gives birth, she could allow me to come see my child, unfortunately, she said ‘’NO’’, this gave me a whole new level of stress.
After a few months, she gave birth to a baby girl whom her sister claims she resembles me, when i heard that, i was excited inside me and it gave me some hope that perhaps one day soon, we shall re-unite. After two years later, i moved on with another relationship with different girl because i could not wait any longer, i thought she would make up her mind after giving birth, but all in vain. I also thought i may move on from being with the mother and just concentrate on the child because i believed she was my daughter.
While in my new relationship, she surprisingly called me, talking to me as if nothing happened between us, according to her conversation, it seems she wanted me back in her life and of which was impossible because i had moved on with a different girl at that time. Within a shortest period of time, i got a new corporate day job which could pay me 4 times more than my previous job, my standard of living changed immensely.
As life went on, i and my new girlfriend shifted to a new self-contained house fully furnished. Oh, when she heard the ‘’breaking news’’ about how my life changed, she kept on calling me almost twice a day, trying to convince me to get back together, remember she was still staying with her ex and so i was. My life is now good and stress-free, i no longer think about the past, i think about the future.
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