Some people just want to have that satisfaction that they actually have someone in their lives. It’s not bad to want a relationship but you need to be very sane while making a decision.
First of all, when you’re fresh from a breakup, your heart is very fragile. At such a time, you’re so vulnerable and you shouldn’t be making certain decisions.
You can be rest assured that after you regain your sanity and stability, you won’t even stay in that relationship. You must allow yourself to heal and not look at another relationship as your healing potion.
I know the temptation is always high to fall in the most available arms when you are hurt. However, no healing will take place because you’re going to hurt yourself again.
Instead of falling in other arms, focus on yourself. Don’t start any relationship just for your own refuge. Remember you’re dealing with another human being who also has a heart.
Run, flee from anything that is likely to make you go into a relationship when you are not ready. If you have to cut off certain people then cut them off.
Besides if you think you’re seeking refuge in another relationship, it’s only a matter of time before the pain comes out. You can’t shield it, the moment you get a trigger, you will realize you actually have never healed.
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