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Can We Normalise Weddings And Marriage

Posted by: Suubi Anne in Relationships October 17, 2020

It is in this generation that weddings are more important than the marriage itself. How did we even get there? Must we educate the masses that wedding is actually just an event especially after the church part of it is put out.

Why then do we treasure the event more than the actual thing which is marriage. Don’t you know that weddings are temporary but the marriage is forever.

People are actually rushing into marriage just to invite thousands of friends to attend their glamorous wedding events. Well, indeed the friends will show up and hail you for throwing a lavish event but none of them will work out your marriage for you.

When did marriage become this cheap, its supposed to be priceless but I guess being relevant has gotten into the heads of many.

Surprisingly very many people who start off their marriages this way end up signing divorces. So this brings me to a very important question. Why would you invest so much in a wedding just to end up in a broken marriage.

This is no condemnation, because they are people who actually make glamorous weddings and still have admirable marriages.

All am trying to put across, is to have our priorities right. Do you want marriage or a wedding. If you indeed want marriage, then you wouldn’t mind having a simple wedding if its all you can afford at the moment.

Why would anyone take a loan just to throw a lavish wedding for people who won’t help you pay the debt?

Let us normalize weddings and marriage. First of all its about the two of you, the people you invite at the wedding stop just there. Do something within your budget, don’t stretch too much to later tear apart.

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