The counselling psychologist urged men to stop trying to date women yet they know they are not ready to be husbands. According to Zulu, there are men who date because they do not want them to get involved with others. They tie them down with relationships knowing they are not ready to settle down.
While speaking on The Benjamin Zulu YouTube show, the relationship coach also asked men to only approach a woman when they are ready to settle. He however cautioned them not to put all their eggs in one basket.
“Good women are hardly ever alone. Another hunter in the jungle will have identified her values. Somebody will have noticed her kindness and her generosity. When I started dating, I was naive. I was looking for someone with no one and it made for a fruitless search,” he explained.
According to Zulu, men should not be scared of women as long as they are not wearing a ring or are not married.
“Be prepared to compete, good things are visible to everyone, as long as she is not married, go for it. Charm her with your words and show up when she is needy. Most women have guys who are tagging them alone but because they have no other options,” he added.
He also said men should not focus on one woman. This can happen until they find that one woman who they can settle with as there are people who are in long-dead relationships.
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