When You Rush For Marriage, Expect Such A Breakup Drama!

Posted by: Eninu William in Relationships August 18, 2018

Breakup Drama: You are such an awful liar. How could you have said all that behind my back? How could you tell such lies against me? You mean this is how you want to pay me back after all I did for you?

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Unbelievable. I can’t believe this is happening. I know four years doesn’t mean so much to you, but listen, it means forever to me. And if you think you can just trash it like that, then you are greatly mistaken. And you even had the guts to drag my family into it?

What the hell! Listen, I’m giving you 24 hours to recant your statements or else I’m going to tell the whole world the truth about you.

Trust me, I’ve got proof. Look at you, so you mistook my gentility for stupidity?

That’s where you missed it. I saw all of these coming, and I prepared for it, bitch.

You better watch out for me, for I’m coming after you with everything I’ve got….

Hey, hollup hollup! Ain’t nobody going after anybody.

Jeez!

Why can’t people just have peaceful breakup (s) for goodness sake. Must it always be dirty and ugly?

I don’t think so. I really don’t think so. But then, what do I know? You know, after my 11th breakup, I made up my mind that I was done with all the whole drama that usually comes with breakup (s).

I said to myself- “Boy, if you’ve got to let her go, why don’t you do it over a bottle of wine and some good delicacy, after all, that’s how you let her in You don’t let her in through the door and then throw her out through the window. That’s not honourable.”

Boom! It sounded good to me. I made the decision. And so on my 12th breakup, I took her out on a date. Call it a breakup date, and you won’t be wrong.

We were having a good time when suddenly I became silent. I knew it was time to do it. I knew it was time to kiss her, to ‘Judas’ her. But then, I also knew it was necessary for the salvation of our happiness.

You see, sometimes you have to crucify your relationship to save your happiness.Easy? No! Worth it? Yes! So I was cool, calm and collected. I smiled at her. She smiled back at me. I held her hands, and I looked her straight in the eyes. And then I said to her- ” Baby, it’s been a long journey. And you have been a wonderful woman. I know I have not been the best man to you.

I have said things I shouldn’t have said. I have done things I shouldn’t have done. And I wish right now I can turn back the hands of time and do things better. But I can’t. And you know why? Because we have tried to make this thing work, but it’s not working. We fight everyday. We shout everyday. And we don’t even trust each other anymore.

We can’t continue like this honey, pretending like everything is alright when they’ve gone haywire. I believe it’s high time we tell ourselves this truth we’ve been running away from. It’s time to face the bitter truth. I love you, but I think we deserve better than this. It’s not working baby, let’s take a walk.”

She was silent. But her eyes were not. They spoke things her mouth couldn’t say. They spoke with tears, and those drops from her eyes, they melted my heart.

She held my hand so tightly as if she was embracing the truth so firmly. She knew I was saying the truth, the truth that had the power to set us free.

Was she going to embrace it? I didn’t know. I really didn’t know what to expect.

But to my greatest surprise, she found the courage to embrace it. Till date, I still can’t explain how she did it, but she did it anyway.

Two years later, I saw her again. She was married. And I could tell from the look in her eyes that she was happy. She was happily married. My God! I was happy for her.

Now you are thinking about me, right? About my relationship status, huh? No, that’s not what you should be thinking about.

Here is what you should be thinking about- My happiness status.!!

That’s what’s important, not my relationship status. And for the records, I believe it’s far better to be single and be happy, than to be in a relationship or be married, and then be ruined.

Don’t let any body rush you. Take your time. It’s your life. Take charge of it. Take charge of your heart. Take charge of your emotions.

Make that decision if you have to, for at the end of the day, there is only one thing that will matter- your happiness.

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